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When you first join our site, you are a standard member. This allows you to create a profile, add public and private photos, search for people by country / state, like and send winks! You're also able to respond to messages initiated by PREMIUM MEMBERS!

Should you decide to become a PREMIUM MEMBER, you'll be able to access all services without any limitation:

Initiate sending messages / chatting online

Photo / Profile security options

Search for people with advanced search tools.

You can upgrade to PREMIUM now! To upgrade your standard membership to PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP, please click "UPGRADE" in the top right bar after logging in. Or, you can click here to be taken there once you've logged in.

Option 1: To upload a photo directly from your computer, simply click the "Profile" icon on the top right navigation bar to reach your profile, hit the "Add photos" button.

Option 2: Sign in to Click on "UPLOAD PHOTO" in the "ADD MOMENTS" below "latest activities" to choose the photo you'd like to add.

Option 3: Email your photos to us. Here's how:

Attach the picture in the email and send it to

Please ensure your photo is larger than 200*200 pixels and less than 10MB in gif, jpg (Jpeg), PNG format. No photos containing identifiable information, or that are nude, pornographic, obscene, or offensive. Copyrighted photos, photos with or of children, and anything against our Service Agreement will be rejected. Photos will be uploaded to your profile within 24 hours.

Option 4: Snap a photo with your smartphone and upload it via our app. You can download our app first so you can upload your photos directly.

Normal approval time for photos / profiles is within 24 hours, however under certain circumstances, this process may take up to 48 hours. Our staff must approve each photo to maintain the quality of matches available.

To update your profile, click "My profile" under your main photo icon in the upper right corner of the top bar.

To edit individual fields, click on the pencil icon next to the name of the field. Click on Save or Submit for Approval (depending on the section) when you're done.

It means proving your identity by uploading a readable and clear copy of your photo ID (driver’s license, State ID card, passport) or other related material. By verifying your information, you are showing members you are real and serious about finding a match. We do not disclose, sell or rent any personal, identifiable information to any third-party organizations. All information provided is kept confidential.

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